Another common New Years resolution is to find love, and we certainly see a big jump in new sign-ups over all of our dating sites at this time of year. This is good for our members old and new and we encourage singles to get into online dating and see how fun and easy it can be.

When we think about all of the common resolutions such as online dating, going to the gym, spending more time with the family we wonder why we need a focal point in the year to decide to make these important changes in our lives. It doesn’t matter what time of year it is, we can all make important changes when we feel READY which should hopefully mean it is a long term commitment and not one that fades out by the start of March…….which is when my gym will probably return to a ghost town once again.

Have a great 2012, make the changes you want when the time is right.

The end of December and first few months of the New Year see the highest new member sign up and member communication over the course of a year. It is a great time to decide to get involved with online dating. Why not make the change this year and take the first steps to getting back on the dating scene. Online dating is the quickest, easiest and safest way to meet new like minded local people and above all puts the fun back into meeting new people.

We look forward to making even more matches possible in 2012 and wish all our singles the very best of luck. Our final though of 2011…….have fun:)

Christmas is a time for families and being with loved ones. It is also one of our busy months here at Going Out Online. We generally see a steady increase in new sign ups and site usage across all of dating networks as the 25th approaches.

Here in the UK is has turned rather cold which is quite nice at this festive time. I know our members in South Africa and Australia are now in summer time and I have yet to experience Christmas dinner in the 30 degree heat. One thing I know that if Father Christmas is partial to a bit of online dating there is no way he is going to turn up to a date at this time of year wear that massive red suite if he decides to woe one of our South African or Australian members!

Try to think about times you have brought the above things to a relationship, a time you where loving, fun, trustworthy etc. Sometimes you might actually struggle to find an example that shows you have been offering a chosen emotion or feeling to a past relationship. This can prove very helpful when you come to think about what you want as well as changing what you can offer in a new relationship.

You might not have found a relationship you want yet because you have not been able to offer what that relationship requires. Honesty is the best solution; it goes back to the ‘receiving what you give’ ethos.

You might not actually be able to offer a certain something to a relationship and in this case I would say you need to re-evaluate if this emotion is something you actually want to receive from a relationship. Some emotions, such as freedom and security for example, are in conflict with each other. You need to put these into order of how importance each one is to you and avoid the conflict.

Messages such as “I know I am fat and unattractive and you are probably going to ignore this email, but thought I would say hello anyway!” are a definite no no, what is fun or inviting about that? We would say that the sender of such a message is not ready for online dating.

We all have good and bad points, but it’s important to concentrate on the good ones. Online dating is all about being honest but also about having fun and making contact with other like minded people. Pity can creep into our lives for many reasons, sometimes we aren’t even aware of it. As hard as it may be try turning that self pity into confidence and write a fun profile which highlights all your good points. People will accept you for who you are and the ones that don’t aren’t worth your time.

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So you’ve sent a mail to someone who takes your fancy and then you wait. Why have they not replied straight away? They are showing as online, are they not interested? Well chances are they probably haven’t read it yet and this is where the new bolt-on comes into place. You will receive a notification when a mail you have sent has been opened/read by the other person. This cuts out a lot of the guess work and lets you make the most of your online dating experience.

This new bolt-on is now available on all of our dating sites, we hope you enjoy it.

We have added a few membership options which allow our basic members to explore the full features and functions which we offer and improve their online dating experience. These bolt-ons offer an alternative to full membership and lets members try our sites before taking the plunge. In the current economically climate we feel these bolt-ons offer great value for money.

An example of this new offer is the ‘Contact For Free’ Bolt-on allowing users to be messaged by both full and basic members.

Another option is the ‘Reply For Free’ Bolt-on which allows basic free members to reply to full members when they message you, which they will because lets face it you’re hot stuff:)

These bolt-ons are offered on all of our dating sites so why not have a look and see how they can benefit you – Click Here

Elite Oz Dating has all the same great search features and functions as our other sites and provides a safe, secure and discreet online dating introduction service for our exclusive members. By working with our White Label Dating partner we are able to offer a site which is packed with 1000′s of local like minded professional singles looking for someone to share their success with.

We have elite members all over the globe who are experiencing our ‘elite’ dating service with dedicated customer service and easy to use well designed websites. Australia is an amazing country where anyone can work hard and achieve, if you are one of Australia’s high flyers why not check out a dating service designed especially for you at www.eliteozdating.com